Tattlers, Friends and Depression, its a reality

It's been a long time since i blogged due to multiple reasons but somewhere smehow i need to get back to the joy of writing and i got a reason to write as the reason gave me the right to talk about it.

Hi bro how are u?

Dude wtf Nirmal sitharamman ,she is ***.I dont know why we work when govt takes all money.

Normal starting of conversation in August whenever I meet someone as if Finance minister is related to me 😂😂. Frustrated souls after earning 35 lakhs salary and is frustrated for paying 5 lakh tax. Kya kare 30lakh is less amount for us today ,depression is in. Not enough likes on your reel , depression. Dress not fitting depression. 

We have friends and as we age we keep loosing some due to multiple reasons,which is part of life. I have a few real valuable friends from college who r stuck with me for life and I am happy about it. They have supported me in most of my ups and downs ,it's crazy sometimes to think they did it.You cherish the ones that are with you than  the ones who were passing with times.Dont concentrate on the lost ones but be happy that there are a few genuine ones left.

I learnt from another friend that in life we always need to differentiate the people as we are doing business and not all can be in you business and personal life. It can head in the wrong direction fast if your bandwidth doesn't match, have personally experienced this also.I really believe in that concept as everyone would have experienced it too, opportunistic friends who are there only during your good times.So usually there are 3 set of people who call themselves as your friend. The ones who will never leave your side at any time of your life,very limited but there are a few such.Then we have other type of friends who are friends with you but not very interested in you or your stories as they have their priorities, don't get too personal with them or it might end up very badly as they have their own priorities. These both are ok but the dangerous ones are the 3rd ones who are the opportunistic group. They will be ur friend until their cycle moves around you, collecting information from you and will see if they get any benefits and use you. They will find someone in your common group to mock at and keep making fun of them ,when they reach next stop they are going to take all the info they get in your stop and turn it into a mockery of you.

Why am I blabbering on and on about friend for a topic of depression.Because i had a call with a close friend who was going through tough times in life , divorce case etc along with all the other normal issues of life. I had told him long back that if any help needed or he feels like sharing something I am open to talking about it as I believe I can be of reason to make them feel better. He was more depressed because he got to know how his friends are mocking him behind his back .He had a interesting thought about life and everyone around. He believes everyone else has a great life except him. This is a huge problem in today's life, its a big illusion we live in. 

A illusion we live in that world is going through some magical time and my life sucks. It is a huge problem today that no one who is even earning 20-30 lakhs is happy about the situation. They all feel the other person is doing better, or enjoying life.I beleive that atleast 70% middle class employees feel this because of the influencing happening around them in social media.Nowadays done even want to visit any tourist place mainly if it's holiday,that too if it's near govt bus stop,u no free bus thing. people are travelling not for fun but to mark their place in the world and satisfy their ego.I went to Bali 2 months back as i never had been on a foreign trip. First day realized that its not worth it and visited not so crowded , non touristy places as i heard from a local that people were standing in 2 hour queue after 3 hour travel to the place limpuyang temple for a 5 minute pic.Are you on a vacation or another assignment?. We have forgotten that we need to be happy with what we have , dont have to be desperate tos how other s we are happy.

I usually keep negative people away from me because they won't add value to life. I see a person cheap talking about another person with me and when they meet they wear that fake mask and jumping around like best buddies.I met a friend Mr A a month back and he talked all shit about other person B who goes on bike rides and how he posts in insta, i ignored the cheap comments he made as i dont care, after a month the same person attends a event and talks as if they are some lost friends and so much hugs. I was baffled,why do PPL have this double face? This has come out of insta to real life now ? Living a fake life u don't have to!! . Half the youngsters today feel are having a great life and yours sucks,get manipulated so fast that they are loosing the people who actually love them due to their misconduct with them.

Everyone think that other person is living a happy life because his insta profile looks cool. But reality is everyone is going through their own low times also which is not for social media.Some find happiness sharing their happy times on social media and get some support (not talking of full-time tokers). Even the person earning heavily has his own problems and money can't solve it. Dont mistake social media for real life. Every time I meet someone they feel I am travelling and have a great life, how do you know that?Yes I am happy with whatever I have and there might be some friend earning 10 times more than me.Why do ic are what he earns, its not a competition. We need to get back to being humans like how it goes in college hostels. Everyone has fun irrespective of their status, If someone is down people do talk him out of it by making some stupid things. You live without fear of failing, if you want to hit someone you hit him but after two days its same Bar table for both ,maybe another fight after that. No personal offense, No legal, no FIR just friends.

It's is said that by 2050 to 2100 around the number of suicides are going to triple because people are going to make others around them feel like loosers and since kids nowadays get everything from a small age phone, tv, ps5,car , bar ,drugs, love ,girlfriend etc etc ...what ll they have to explore or get fascinated by the time they reach 20 years. 

Enjoy your life at your own limits, not every thing is about investing, saving and tomorrow's. Live for today whatever little you have be happy and start spreading positive influence than sit in a bar and gossip about others😀😂. Its sad to see a person go downwards in life from being a great personality. Give your lost friend a call ad you never know what he is going through.

I am now bored writing so much after long time. Maybe next blog something on why my film dint take off :D :D . Failures can be fun too and if anyone wants to discuss on current topic also can leave me a message and we can have a chat 😀